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Daughters in-law in black families a pastoral care perspective

Dissertation (MA(Theol))--University of Pretoria, 2011.

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spelling oai:repository.up.ac.za:2263/28096 Daughters in-law in black families a pastoral care perspective Masango, Maake J.S upetd@up.ac.za Sibiya, Rachel Sukumile Mildred Umakoti The field of nomkhubulwana King shaka Lebitla lamosadi kebohadi Izintaba zokhahlamba Silomo kamdlalose King zwelithini Umfazi Ptsd Umusa Ubuntu UCTD Dissertation (MA(Theol))--University of Pretoria, 2011. This study is a research and the investigation in order to find out why young daughters in-laws in the Black Families are badly treated. The researcher tried to find out whether there was any writer who had done any work on this study in order to ascertain some facts form the olden way of treating daughters in-law. The author found out that there was no work concerning the relationship of daughters in-law and their mothers in-law. Most of the work in this study was done in China, India, Philippines and Western Countries. The author took the initiative to interview young women and the old women in order to dig out the problem of abusive relationship between them. Two models were used in this study in order to find the healing process for both parties. The Methodology of Shepherding was used in order to find method of journeying with abused daughters in-law. The model Positive Deconstruction was used in order to help people to replace what is not good with something better. The objective of the study is to empower and raise awareness of the cultural system which continuously oppress women. The abusive relationship leads to the separation of extended families. The aim of the study is to construct a good relationship between the daughters in-law and their in-laws. The study revealed that mothers in-law abusive attitude is propelled by the love of their sons. They are so attached to their sons in such a way that they do not trust another woman in their sons’ lives. The study found out that the bond of the son and mother is caused by genetic impact. The love between these people is the umbilical cord which does not separate them. The relationship between them would become healthy if the love for each other become the man needs both women in his life. The study revealed again that if the mother in-law was abused by her mother in-law it was likely that she would abuse the daughter in-law. This act is caused by the low self esteem she carried and experienced in her abusive relationship. Practical Theology unrestricted 2013-09-07T12:51:59Z 2011-09-27 2013-09-07T12:51:59Z 2011-09-08 2011-09-27 2011-09-21 Dissertation Sibiya, RSM 2011, Daughters in-law in black families a pastoral care perspective, MA(Theol) dissertation, University of Pretoria, Pretoria, viewed yymmdd < http://hdl.handle.net/2263/28096 > E11/9/14/gm http://hdl.handle.net/2263/28096 http://upetd.up.ac.za/thesis/available/etd-09212011-103848/ © 2011, University of Pretoria. All rights reserved. The copyright in this work vests in the University of Pretoria. No part of this work may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means, without the prior written permission of the University of Pretoria. application/pdf University of Pretoria
spellingShingle Umakoti
The field of nomkhubulwana
King shaka
Lebitla lamosadi kebohadi
Izintaba zokhahlamba
Silomo kamdlalose
King zwelithini
Umfazi
Ptsd
Umusa
Ubuntu
UCTD
Daughters in-law in black families a pastoral care perspective
title Daughters in-law in black families a pastoral care perspective
title_full Daughters in-law in black families a pastoral care perspective
title_fullStr Daughters in-law in black families a pastoral care perspective
title_full_unstemmed Daughters in-law in black families a pastoral care perspective
title_short Daughters in-law in black families a pastoral care perspective
title_sort daughters in law in black families a pastoral care perspective
topic Umakoti
The field of nomkhubulwana
King shaka
Lebitla lamosadi kebohadi
Izintaba zokhahlamba
Silomo kamdlalose
King zwelithini
Umfazi
Ptsd
Umusa
Ubuntu
UCTD
url http://hdl.handle.net/2263/28096
http://upetd.up.ac.za/thesis/available/etd-09212011-103848/